Name: qiaoxiang I am the only survivor at home… the only one who does not need to say “hi” to spectacles. My younger brother was brought to the optician for a check up and yes, the day has come for him to befriend with spectacles. Anyway, it was kind of expected for everyone at home. With his kind of daily habits, we were not caught by surprise by this outcome. Well, I am not here to boast about how perfect my eyesight are though I know that with what I am doing right now (staring at my screen all day long) will eventually lead me to blindness, real soon! Haha!
Well, I am just exaggerating but I know that my eyesight is deteriorating because I know myself best. But no matter how perfect our eyesight are, we are still blinded in some way or another. Often, we like to self deceive in order to make you feel better. Or perhaps, we are just blinded by selfishness, pride, jealousy, greed, or even love…
As I have said, you know yourself best (i.e. you know what’s blinding you). But often, we are just too slow, too slow to realize what we have actually missed, or maybe we are just too slow to react. Something that will bring you regrets, something that will bring you lots of pain & hurts. But do not be upset, as time will heal this wounded heart of yours. What you and I need is just time. We need time to think, need time to consider, need time to recover, need time to realize, need time to be alone. Gosh, we really need whole lot of time.
Believe me, time is the best remedy. It may be too high a price to pay but it was a precious lesson that you have learnt. A lesson that nobody will be able to gain as much as you did. A lesson that taught you to cherish, to cherish those people that are important to you.
Well, I am just exaggerating but I know that my eyesight is deteriorating because I know myself best. But no matter how perfect our eyesight are, we are still blinded in some way or another. Often, we like to self deceive in order to make you feel better. Or perhaps, we are just blinded by selfishness, pride, jealousy, greed, or even love…
As I have said, you know yourself best (i.e. you know what’s blinding you). But often, we are just too slow, too slow to realize what we have actually missed, or maybe we are just too slow to react. Something that will bring you regrets, something that will bring you lots of pain & hurts. But do not be upset, as time will heal this wounded heart of yours. What you and I need is just time. We need time to think, need time to consider, need time to recover, need time to realize, need time to be alone. Gosh, we really need whole lot of time.
Believe me, time is the best remedy. It may be too high a price to pay but it was a precious lesson that you have learnt. A lesson that nobody will be able to gain as much as you did. A lesson that taught you to cherish, to cherish those people that are important to you.
~要 懂 得 珍 惜 眼 前 人~ This is the lesson that you have taught me.
How often, it was just too late for us to realise that...
P.S. Thanks for sharing as you have taught me such important lesson. We learn together as we grow ya. Take care…
P.S. Thanks for sharing as you have taught me such important lesson. We learn together as we grow ya. Take care…